Cracking the Emotional Code: Seeking Freedom from Trigger Mines

Ever felt like emotional switches were scattered like a minefield across your life, just waiting for someone to stumble upon them? Those triggers? They’re like hidden trapdoors, instantly catapulting our emotions into a rollercoaster ride faster than you can say “surprise!”

These triggers? They’re like buried treasure chests of past experiences and emotional maps, waiting for an unsuspecting pirate to dig them up. It’s those moments when someone “flips our switch” or “plays our heartstrings,” turning our emotional jukebox into a cacophony.

Understanding these triggers isn’t just about deciphering an emotional Morse code; it’s about exploring a maze of feelings and striving for a Sherlock-level self-awareness.

But here’s the plot twist: these triggers often connect to our pride, packaged alongside impatience and misinterpretation. When someone hits those emotional buttons, it’s like they’re challenging our pride, and our ability to keep our cool is put to the ultimate test.

Enter the Bible, dropping pearls of wisdom like a treasure chest, with Proverbs 16:32 saying, “He who is slow to anger is better than the mighty, And he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city.” Keeping your cool is the real superhero power move.

Then there’s Proverbs 29:11, “A fool vents all his feelings, But a wise man holds them back.” It’s like saying, “Hey, feel the feels, but let’s not start a wild emotional bonfire, shall we?”

But what if we could deactivate these triggers like a tech wizard killing a virus? What if we could untangle the emotional knots others tie like a pro untying a Gordian knot?

Getting rid of these triggers isn’t just about dodging emotional curveballs; it’s about redecorating our emotional house, throwing out the old furniture that clashes with our current vibe.

By acknowledging, understanding, and actively working to disarm these triggers from our lives, we’re stepping into a territory of emotional liberation. It’s a journey toward mastering ourselves, where our responses are rooted in wisdom, and our emotional rollercoaster becomes a soothing canoe ride down a tranquil river.

Ultimately, it’s about becoming the maestro of our emotional symphony, orchestrating a melody that harmonizes with our best selves and allows us to dance through life with a lighter heart and a clearer mind.

In the end, as we navigate the twists and turns of life, may this journey of mastering our emotional triggers grant us the serenity to sail through the storms, the wisdom to anchor in troubled waters, and the resilience to weather any emotional tempest life tosses our way.

—Josh Mullins—

6 responses to “Cracking the Emotional Code: Seeking Freedom from Trigger Mines”

  1. In the second mention of the proverbs when you were talking about feel the feels can you expand on that? What is an emotional bond fire? I can think of a few things but I’d like some clarification.

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    1. Our feelings often reflect what’s happening around us, acting as mirrors to our responses. Yet, exercising self-control is crucial. Without it, our emotions can rage like a bonfire, drawing attention and potentially causing disruption around us. Hopefully that makes sense. Thank you for asking for clarification because this helps us become better writers by thoroughly explaining what we are trying to convey.

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      1. I have a few more questions…….so…are you saying that our feeling are responding to our reaction to situations and self control is what helps to keep from disrupting? Also what type of disruptions? Small or big or both? And I’m assuming it’s negative disruptions right? Also I just realized your profile name says breaking insanity…I thought it said breaking in sanity….I need to get more sleep.

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        1. Our feelings serve as our internal response to anything or anyone that can potentially shape how we externally react. This article specifically addresses negative circumstances that can trigger adverse physical outcomes, with the intensity of these triggers varying from person to person. Some may have shorter fuses while others maintain longer ones—still we must always stay defused. Exercising self-control acts as a buffer, preventing these emotional disruptions.

          Reflecting on my past, I realize I haven’t always exercised self-control. There were moments I inadvertently aggravated tensions within my family, though thankfully, those have been resolved now. This realization led me to name my blog ‘Breaking Insanity,’ signifying the need to break away from unproductive patterns in my life that led to constant destruction.

          We must learn to not allow negative circumstances to affect us externally even though we feel the strong emotions inside of us such as anger, hatred, bitterness and unforgiveness at times which these emotions can blindly lead us to react in what I call a blind rage.

          Here are some Bible verses to further support this.

          Ecclesiastes 7:9 NKJV
          [9] Do not hasten in your spirit to be angry, For anger rests in the bosom of fools.

          Proverbs 15:18 NKJV
          [18] A wrathful man stirs up strife, But he who is slow to anger allays contention.

          Psalm 37:8 NKJV
          [8] Cease from anger, and forsake wrath; Do not fret-it only causes harm.

          There are plenty more verses. I might have to do a part two of this article.

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        2. Thank you for the clarification. I think I understand more. I will take this into consideration in future situations. Thanks for answering all my questions!

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        3. You are welcome and thank you for asking the questions.

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